Wings of a Phoenix Podcast
Wings of a Phoenix is the podcast for high-achieving women 40+ navigating life after divorce. Whether you have led in the boardroom, the non-profit sector, or within your own home and community, host Trena Briscoe Matthews helps you move through the chaos, reclaim your power, and intentionally design your next chapter — through the Phoenix Protocol framework.
Keywords: Divorce Recovery, Women Over 40, Life After Divorce, Women's Empowerment, Post-Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach.
Wings of a Phoenix is the podcast for high-achieving women 40+ navigating life after divorce. Whether you have led in the boardroom, the non-profit sector, or within your own home and community, host Trena Briscoe Matthews helps you move through the chaos, reclaim your power, and intentionally design your next chapter — through the Phoenix Protocol framework.
Keywords: Divorce Recovery, Women Over 40, Life After Divorce, Women's Empowerment, Post-Divorce Coach, Divorce Recovery Coach.
What You’ll Find Here
In Wings of a Phoenix, you’ll find conversations and reflections designed to meet you where you are.
• Conversations for women rebuilding after major life transitions
• Reflections that restore clarity, self-trust, and inner authority
• Gentle reminders that you are whole, even in this season of becoming
Episodes
58 minutes ago
58 minutes ago
33 min
What if the goal was never to recover from your divorce, but to finally become the woman all those roles never gave you room to be?
In this episode of Wings of a Phoenix, host Trena Briscoe Matthews sits down with Dr. Lisha Antiqua, former therapist, founder of Your Own University, and author of six books, to unpack why willpower alone can't rebuild your life after divorce, and why identity is the real key to transformation.
Dr. Lisha shares her "Amazing You Method" and explains how healing became an addiction for so many women, why traditional therapy keeps you dependent, and how to reclaim your sense of self after a marriage ends. If you have ever asked "Who am I now?" after divorce, this episode is for you.
In this conversation:
Why willpower alone can't rebuild your identity after divorce
How "healing" can quietly become a lifestyle you never graduate from
The Amazing You Method and the four elements of identity
Shadow work redefined: why joy is the real shadow
How to rebuild confidence, starting with learning how to fail
The one question to ask yourself today
Links & resources
Free Identity Shift Blueprint from Dr. Lisha: https://lishaantiqua.com/
Your Own University: https://yourownuniversity.com/
Grab the free Phoenix Reset: https://free.silverlinepublishing.cloud/phoenixreset?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes
Join the private Facebook community, Post-Divorce Women: Reclaim, Rebuild & Rise
Ready to rebuild with intention? Apply for a 10-minute Alignment Call: https://app.silverlinepublishing.cloud/widget/bookings/alignment-connect?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes
About the guest, Dr. Lisha Antiqua
Dr. Lisha Antiqua is the founder of Your Own University and the creator of the Amazing YOU Method and the Reclaim Intimacy Method. Awarded America's Premier Expert in Self-Care, she has spent decades studying transpersonal psychology, human behavior, and personal transformation, and is the author of six books. After years as a therapist, and years in therapy herself, she saw the gap no one was naming: healing was never meant to become your identity. Working with thousands of survivors, she found that many women become experts in their own trauma yet still struggle to trust themselves, receive love, or build the life they want. Her work helps women reclaim what trauma took, their voice, value, self-trust, relationships, pleasure, and purpose, and move from surviving into a life they genuinely love. As she puts it, the goal was never to spend your life recovering, it was to become the person trauma tried to prevent you from becoming.
About the host, Trena Briscoe Matthews
Trena Briscoe Matthews is a coach, author, and host of the Wings of a Phoenix Podcast. After more than 20 years at the CIA, including 13 years in executive leadership, and nearly a decade at Cisco Systems, she turned one of the hardest chapters of her own life into her life's mission: helping high-achieving women rebuild with intention after divorce. She is the founder of Silverline Publishing, creator of the Phoenix Protocol, a four-pillar coaching framework for women ready to move from survival to design, and the author of Self-Love for Women and the forthcoming The Phoenix Path.
Chapters / timestamps
0:00 Solo Opening
0:26 Standard Intro
1:08 Meet Dr. Lisha Antiqua
1:34 "The goal was never to spend your life recovering"
1:57 Healing as a lifestyle addiction
2:23 Childhood abuse and the healing system
3:16 Why the healing industry keeps you dependent
5:27 Moving away from traditional therapy
5:58 Why Dr. Lisha never got licensed
7:38 Object Identity Disorder vs. PTSD
9:19 The Amazing You Method & "Into Me See"
12:57 Identity vs. Willpower: the real difference
14:52 You're not lost, you're not chosen
16:40 The four elements of identity
19:36 Shadow work redefined: joy is the real shadow
23:48 Willpower is a myth that keeps you stuck
25:20 Rebuilding confidence after divorce
26:24 Confidence is learning how to fail
29:55 One question to ask yourself today
31:50 Free Identity Shift Blueprint
33:26 Where to connect & closing thoughts
58 minutes ago
33 min
Aug 13, 2026
Aug 13, 2026
30 min
Are you hoping things will change, or are you asking for what you need?
In this episode, host Trena Briscoe Matthews sits down with Marcelle LeBlanc, relationship coach, founder of the intimacy and wellness brand Velvet Box, and creator of The Conversation Architect, to unpack the difference between women who hope and women who ask. Marcelle shares her own story: nearly a decade in a marriage built on silence, the discovery that her husband was living a double life, and rebuilding from close to zero, emotionally and financially. What she found on the other side became a framework for transformation.
This conversation is for every woman who has ever waited for someone else to notice, hoping he would change, when what she actually needed was to ask.
In this episode
What the "hope trap" looks like in a smart, capable woman's daily life
The real cost of silence, measured in years and identity, not just money
Lauren's story: the one conversation that restarted a marriage instead of ending it
How the ask vs. hope framework applies post-divorce, not just before the decision
What the shift from hoper to asker actually looks like in the middle: self-trust, built one small conversation at a time
The "vista break," and why looking back is how you find what you want next
The one ask Marcelle sends every woman home with
About the Guest
Marcelle LeBlanc is the Conversation Architect and has discovered that one honest conversation can save a woman years. Years of resentment. Years of loneliness and the quiet grief of not being seen. Years spent building a life with the wrong person, or with the right person in the wrong way. After surviving an unhealthy marriage, infidelity, and a devastating divorce, Marcelle's path took an unexpected turn. Through more than a decade of conversations with thousands of women in the business she built, she began noticing the same painful pattern over and over again: many women know something is wrong in their relationship long before they allow themselves to say it out loud. Many convince themselves it's "good enough," only to realize years later that it was a painful mistake. Today, Marcelle is an entrepreneur who built Velvet Box, a multi-million-dollar retail brand, and now dedicates her life to The Conversation Architect. Marcelle is on a mission to help women make the critical decision that could change their lives. Not by spending months in couples therapy, but through one honest conversation that can set them on a path toward love, happiness, and alignment.
Connect with Marcelle
onekeyconversation.com | @the_conversation_architect (Instagram, Facebook, LinkedIn)
About the Host
Trena Briscoe Matthews is a coach, author, and host of the Wings of a Phoenix Podcast. After more than 20 years at the CIA, including 13 years in executive leadership, and nearly a decade at Cisco Systems, she turned one of the hardest chapters of her own life into her life's mission: helping high-achieving women rebuild with intention after divorce. Her work walks a woman from bracing for whatever comes next to facing it steady and confident, from not recognizing herself in the mirror to knowing exactly who she is. She is the founder of Silverline Publishing, creator of the Phoenix Protocol, a four-pillar coaching framework, and the author of Self-Love for Women and the forthcoming The Phoenix Path.
Connect with Trena
Book an alignment call: https://app.silverlinepublishing.cloud/widget/bookings/alignment-connect?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes
Phoenix Reset Guide (free): https://free.silverlinepublishing.cloud/phoenixreset?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes
Post-Divorce Financial Checklist (free): https://free.silverlinepublishing.cloud/checklist?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes
Wings of a Phoenix on YouTube: https://youtube.com/@wingsofaphoenix
Wings of a Phoenix on Podbean: https://wingsofaphoenixpodbean.com
Aug 13, 2026
30 min
Jul 31, 2026
Jul 31, 2026
35 min
Are you a high-achieving mom navigating divorce while trying to protect your kids’ emotional well-being? In this episode, host Trena Briscoe Matthews sits down with Dr. Carla Caturia — Elite Mental Performance Coach and founder of The House of RISE — for the honest conversation every divorcing mom needs to hear.
Dr. Carla has spent over 20 years in education and has worked with more than 10,000 students and families. She’s identified a pattern she calls the “Success Without Self Cycle” — where achievement keeps climbing while identity quietly falls behind. Your kids can be making straight A’s, winning trophies, and appearing perfectly fine on the outside… while carrying something heavy underneath.
In this conversation:
The hidden emotional cost of divorce on high-achieving kids
How the “Success Without Self Cycle” shows up in your children
Why appearing strong may actually keep your kids from opening up
How to co-parent across two households without losing your peace
The one weekly habit that builds deeper connection with your teen
Why your vulnerability is your greatest parenting asset right now
LINKS & RESOURCES
Free Phoenix Reset Guide: https://free.silverlinepublishing.cloud/opt-in-page?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes
Join the private Facebook community: Post-Divorce Women — Reclaim, Rebuild & Rise
Follow Dr. Carla Caturia: @DrCarlaCuturia on Instagram & Facebook
Apply for a 10-Minute Alignment Call with Trena: https://app.silverlinepublishing.cloud/widget/bookings/alignment-connect?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=shownotes
ABOUT THE GUEST — DR. CARLA CATURIA
Dr. Carla Caturia is an Elite Mental Performance Coach and the founder of The House of RISE. Drawing on more than 20 years in education — as a teacher, vice principal, and professor — she has worked with over 10,000 students and families, helping tweens, teens, young adults, and their parents build the inner skills achievement alone can’t provide: confidence, emotional resilience, self-trust, and emotional intelligence. Her work grew from her own story — a straight-A, varsity-athlete teen who looked successful on the outside while carrying pressure and self-doubt underneath. Through her signature RISE Framework and the Success Without Self Cycle™, she helps young people perform at a high level without tying their worth to their achievements.
ABOUT THE HOST — TRENA BRISCOE MATTHEWS
Trena Briscoe Matthews is a coach, author, and host of the Wings of a Phoenix Podcast. After more than 20 years at the CIA — including 13 years in executive leadership — and nearly a decade at Cisco Systems — she turned one of the hardest chapters of her own life into her life’s mission: helping high-achieving women rebuild with intention after divorce. She is the founder of Silverline Publishing, creator of the Phoenix Protocol — a four-pillar coaching framework for women ready to move from survival to design — and the author of Self-Love for Women and the forthcoming The Phoenix Path.
Chapters:
00:00 Introduction: The fear every divorcing mom carries
00:41 Welcome to Wings of a Phoenix
01:08 Meet Dr. Carla Caturia & The House of RISE
02:12 The Success Without Self Cycle explained
02:37 Carla’s story: Achievement as a mask
04:46 Leaving a successful career to rebuild
09:05 The moment she stopped trusting herself
10:40 How the cycle shows up in women
11:26 Reconnecting with your identity after divorce
13:23 Removing limiting beliefs as a mom
15:43 What’s really happening inside your kids
16:07 Open communication strategies for parents
17:56 When your child looks “fine” on the outside
19:36 Why moms need a third-party support system
20:35 The power of vulnerability with your kids
23:41 Co-parenting with different standards in two homes
27:53 One conversation to have with your teen this week
30:31 What Dr. Carla wants every divorcing mom to know
32:33 Where to find Dr. Carla & her free teen course
34:07 Grab your FREE Phoenix Reset Guide
Jul 31, 2026
35 min
Jun 25, 2026
Jun 25, 2026
44 min
If you've been putting off updating your estate plan after divorce — this episode is your wake-up call.
Attorney, CFP®, and tax strategist Matt Meredith of Meridian Legal Advisors joins host Trena Briscoe Matthews to break down the exact legal and financial moves divorced women need to make — and what's silently at risk when they don't.
In this episode, you'll learn:
Why your divorce decree does NOT mean your legal work is done
The #1 estate planning mistake divorced women make (and it's not what you think)
What happens to your business, beneficiaries, and assets if you become incapacitated
The difference between tax accounting and tax strategy — and when strategy starts saving you money
Why you should never give a 20-something an inheritance outright
How to build a legal, financial, and tax team that actually works together
ABOUT THE GUEST
Matt Meredith is an attorney, CFP®, and tax strategist and the founder of Meridian Legal Advisors — a one-stop firm built to serve clients at the intersection of legal, financial, and tax planning. Matt specializes in estate planning, asset protection, and post-divorce financial strategy, helping clients close the legal and financial gaps that too often go unaddressed after a major life transition. He works with divorced women navigating the critical first years after separation, ensuring their estate plans, beneficiary designations, business documents, and tax strategies reflect their new reality — not their old life.
Connect with Matt Meredith:
🌐 meridianlg.com
📧 matt@meridianlg.com
ABOUT THE HOST
Trena Briscoe Matthews is a coach, author, and host of the Wings of a Phoenix Podcast. After more than 20 years at the CIA — including 13 years in executive leadership — and nearly a decade at Cisco Systems — she turned one of the hardest chapters of her own life into her life's mission: helping high-achieving women rebuild with intention after divorce. She is the founder of Silverline Publishing, creator of the Phoenix Protocol — a four-pillar coaching framework for women ready to move from survival to design — and the author of Self-Love for Women and the forthcoming The Phoenix Path.
Resources:
📌 Free Virtual Event — Starting Over Smart: The Financial Moves That Matter Most for Post-Divorce Women — June 30th. Register here → https://us06web.zoom.us/webinar/register/WN_hRfHMMNbQxCdOr0H9wQR5Q#/registration
📋 Free Post-Divorce Financial Checklist: free.silverlinepublishing.cloud/checklist
Wings of a Phoenix is hosted by Trena Briscoe Matthews — divorce recovery coach for
high-achieving women 40+ ready to rebuild with intention.
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Jun 25, 2026
44 min
Jun 19, 2026
Jun 19, 2026
33 min
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What happens when the relationship that costs you the most becomes the story you were always meant to tell?
In this episode, I sit down with Nikki Allen — singer-songwriter, filmmaker, author, philanthropist, and founder of The Empress Company and Lyrical Content Entertainment Group. Nikki is a woman who has turned every hard thing into art, and this conversation reflects exactly that.
She opens up about losing her mother, finding herself deep in a relationship that cost her more than she expected, and how she transformed that pain into music, film, and her debut novel Loved You, Hated You. What struck me most was that even in the hard parts, Nikki never lost sight of who she was — and she made sure we talked about the healing, not just the heartbreak.
We cover how grief shaped her early life and career, the story behind her novel, what it really means to be a soul-led woman, and the tools that helped her rebuild and build an empire on the other side of loss.
This one is for every woman who has ever loved someone at the cost of herself — and is ready to come back to who she was before.
0:00 – Introduction & Episode Teaser
0:30 – Meet Nikki Allen: Singer, Filmmaker, Author & Founder
1:22 – Welcome to Wings of a Phoenix Podcast
2:33 – Who Was Nikki in Her 20s? Life Before the Relationship
3:55 – Moving to LA & Losing Her Mom — Her North Star Was Gone
5:05 – How the Toxic Relationship Started Slowly
6:46 – The Representative Has an Expiration Date
6:47 – From Song to Screenplay to Novel: Why Loved You, Hated You Needed to Be Written
9:42 – Identity Erosion: When Love Slowly Costs You Yourself
10:38 – The Spiritual Sign She Took as Confirmation
12:57 – Controlling Behaviors That Crept In Unnoticed
14:19 – Physical Abuse & Why She Stayed
16:07 – He Came After Her With a Gun
21:43 – People Only Treat You the Way You Allow: Doing the Inner Work
23:01 – Soul Surgery: Healing Childhood Trauma & Breaking Patterns
26:39 – Creative Expression as Healing: Song, Film & Fiction
29:39 – The Woman Still in It: Nikki's Message of Grace
32:01 – He's Still in Her Life Today — How Boundaries Changed Everything
32:30 – Where to Find Loved You, Hated You & Connect With Nikki
33:08 – Final Words & Call to Action from Trena
Meet the Guest — Nikki Allen
Nikki Allen is a multi-hyphenate artist, entrepreneur, and author whose life's work sits at the intersection of creativity, healing, and impact. As a singer-songwriter, filmmaker, and philanthropist, she has built a career dedicated to telling the stories that most people are afraid to say out loud. She is the founder of The Empress Company and Lyrical Content Entertainment Group, and the author of the debut novel Loved You, Hated You — a raw, unflinching look at love, loss, and the journey back to self.
Connect with Nikki Allen: https://officialnikkiallen.com/
Meet the Host— Trena Briscoe Matthews
Trena Briscoe Matthews is a coach, author, and host of the Wings of a Phoenix Podcast. After more than 20 years at the CIA — including 13 years in executive leadership — and nearly a decade at Cisco Systems — she turned one of the hardest chapters of her own life into her life's mission: helping high-achieving women rebuild with intention after divorce. She is the founder of Silverline Publishing, creator of the Phoenix Protocol — a four-pillar coaching framework for women ready to move from survival to design — and the author of Self-Love for Women and the forthcoming The Phoenix Path.
🔗 Connect with Trena: https://tcbriscoe.my.canva.site/
Subscribe to Wings of a Phoenix for new episodes every week.
This is your season to rise. — Trena
Jun 19, 2026
33 min
May 25, 2026
May 25, 2026
41 min
What do you do when a court tells you that you get one hour a week with your child?
Kate Markland didn’t fall apart. She asked her son Gabriel one question: “Do you want to be the hero of your own story?” That question built a world.
Kate is a former physiotherapist, children’s author, award-winning innovator, and founder of StoryQuest™ — a storytelling methodology that has achieved 100% engagement among 465 children in 9 schools, with zero behavioral incidents, and has every single child become a published author. It has been presented to the British Psychological Society and considered by UNICEF.
In this episode, Kate shares what her 20 years as a physiotherapist taught her about listening — not to symptoms, but to the story beneath them. She walks us through the night her son Gabriel was removed from her home by armed police, how she survived the darkest chapter of her life one small win at a time, and how one hour on FaceTime became a #1 Amazon bestselling children’s book series and a global movement connecting children across continents.
This conversation is for every woman who has ever felt like someone else was writing her story — her divorce, her judge, her ex. Kate’s journey is proof that you are always the author. No matter what chapter you’re in.
“You own your story. Nobody else owns your story.” — Kate Markland.
TIMESTAMPS
0:00 — Hook: What do you do when a court limits you to one hour a week with your child?
1:00 — Welcome to Wings of a Phoenix
2:00 — Introducing Kate Markland
4:00 — 20 years as a physiotherapist: learning to hear what people carry, not just what’s broken
5:00 — Why the answer is always in someone’s story — and how to help them find it
10:00 — The night armed police removed Gabriel from their home — and a mother’s decision not to quit
12:00 — The court hearing that changed everything: “do or die.”
13:00 — When the system tried to silence her — and the moment she stopped negotiating
15:00 — One hour a week: what the court didn’t realize it handed her
17:00 — “Shall we make up a story where you’re the hero?” — one question on FaceTime
18:00 — Writing their story week by week, like Dickens
20:00 — From a Word document on a messy desktop to a #1 Amazon bestseller
22:00 — Helen Fielding at Cheltenham, and the moment Kate realized she had something real
23:00 — How 20 years of physiotherapy became a literacy methodology: the StoryQuest™ process explained
26:00 — What the stories gave Gabriel — and what they gave Kate
30:00 — The phoenix quest in the books — and what Kate has had to become
31:00 — “Use all your skills, Mum” — rowing, endurance, and Gabriel’s advice
33:00 — Becoming a whistleblower — researching the system that failed her
34:00 — Finding gratitude in the darkest place — and trusting Gabriel when she couldn’t protect him
38:00 — Stories Without Borders: one question to one little boy now connects children from Bradford to Lahore to Buenos Aires
40:00 — Kate’s message to women who feel their story was written by someone else + Trena’s closing
FEATURED GUEST: KATE MARKLAND
Kate Markland is a former physiotherapist, children’s author, and advocate for every child’s right to tell their own story. She is the creator of StoryQuest™ — a storytelling methodology that has achieved 100% engagement across 465 children in nine schools, turning every reluctant, resistant, or disengaged learner into a published author.
When Kate faced a court-ordered separation from her son Gabriel, she transformed their weekly hour together into a collaborative storytelling adventure — one that became a #1 bestselling children’s book series before Gabriel turned twelve. That same insight — that healing begins with being heard — became the foundation of StoryQuest™.
The methodology has been presented to the British Psychological Society, considered by UNICEF, and covered by BBC News, Times Radio, and publications across four continents. Kate received the PhysioTimes Women in Leadership Award in 2026, and her global story library, Stories Without Borders, now connects children across Bradford, Lahore, Buenos Aires, and beyond.
She brings clinical rigor, a mother’s heart, and twenty years of listening to people at their most vulnerable to every conversation she has.
📚 The Adventures of Gabriel — theadventuresofgabriel.com📺 YouTube — @TheAdventuresofGabriel🌐 StoryQuest™ & everything Kate — katemarkland.com
ABOUT YOUR HOST: TRENA BRISCOE MATTHEWS
Trena Briscoe Matthews is a post-divorce coach and author helping high-achieving women — especially divorced moms — move from survival mode into their most intentional chapter yet. Through Silverline Publishing & Coaching and her signature Phoenix Protocol, she guides women to rebuild — not just recover.
She is the author of the upcoming book (working title) The Phoenix Path: A Woman’s Guide to Rediscovering Her Voice, Reclaiming Her Confidence, and Writing Her Next Chapter — and her launch team is now open.
📖 Join the Launch Team: thephoenixpathbook.com📞 Book a Complimentary Clarity Call: call.silverlinepublishing.cloud🎁 Free Phoenix Reset Guide: free.silverlinepublishing.cloud🔗 Connect with Trena: tcbriscoe.my.canva.site
Until next time — this is your season to rise.
May 25, 2026
41 min
May 13, 2026
May 13, 2026
12 min
Are you setting boundaries with your ex but letting everyone else drain your energy?
In this episode of Wings of a Phoenix, post-divorce coach Trena Briscoe Matthews reveals the hard truth: real reinvention after divorce means protecting your peace from everyone — not just your ex.
We talk about:- How your social circle shifts after divorce.- Why it feels harder to set limits with friends than with an ex.- How to recognize when a friendship has hit its expiration date.- Why this chapter of your life is by invitation only.
If you're a high-achieving woman 40+ rebuilding your life with intention, this episode is for you.
📥 Download the FREE Phoenix Reset Guide — your first step from surviving to designing your life with intention:https://free.silverlinepublishing.cloud
📞 Book a Complimentary Clarity Call:https://call.silverlinepublishing.cloud
May 13, 2026
12 min
Apr 30, 2026
Apr 30, 2026
12 min
Buy Self-Love for Women on Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DKK55WFC — Follow along with our April Miniseries.
Access the Phoenix Reset & Free Resources: https://tcbriscoe.my.canva.site/
"We’ve spent years over-performing to prove our worth, rather than simply owning it. Today, we’re stopping the performance."
In this finale of our April Self-Love mini-series, host Trena Briscoe Matthews leads you through a radical act of self-reclamation. This episode is for the woman who is tired of waiting for an apology from the past and is ready to give herself the closure she deserves.
Inside this episode:
The Radical Worthiness Reflection: Identify the blind spots keeping you from your brilliance.
The Love Letter Exercise: A step-by-step guide to writing your way into your next chapter.
Ending the "Not Enough" Narrative: Moving from over-functioning to unapologetic worth.
Today’s Mantra: "I am worthy of my own forgiveness, and I am the author of my next chapter."
ABOUT WINGS OF A PHOENIX Wings of a Phoenix is the podcast for high-achieving women 40+ navigating life after divorce. Host Trena Briscoe Matthews helps you move through the chaos, reclaim your power and peace, and intentionally design your next chapter.
#SelfLove #PostDivorce #SelfWorth #WingsOfAPhoenix #DivorceHealing #WomenOver40 #SelfCare #HighAchievers #LifeAfterDivorce
Apr 30, 2026
12 min
Apr 24, 2026
Apr 24, 2026
11 min
Buy Self-Love for Women on Amazon - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DKK55WFC — Follow along with our April Miniseries.
Access the Phoenix Reset & Free Resources: https://tcbriscoe.my.canva.site/
Welcome to Part 2 of our April Self-Love mini-series on Wings of a Phoenix. In this episode, host Trena Briscoe Matthews dives into why putting yourself first isn't just a luxury—it’s a rescue mission.
For the high-achieving woman used to managing everyone else's needs, reclaiming your own identity and time after divorce is the first step toward true healing.
Inside this episode:
The "Me First Hour": A concrete 60-minute blueprint to help you sit with your own needs and feelings.
The Self-Love Series: How this "Day 14" exercise bridges the gap between acknowledging your beauty and owning your worthiness.
Breaking the Cycle: Why we habitually put ourselves last and how to shift that narrative.
Today’s Mantra: "I am the most important woman in my life, and today I will put my needs and feelings first."
ABOUT WINGS OF A PHOENIX Wings of a Phoenix is the podcast for high-achieving women 40+ navigating life after divorce. Host Trena Briscoe Matthews helps you move through the chaos, reclaim your power and peace, and intentionally design your next chapter.
#SelfLove #PostDivorce #WomenEmpowerment #PersonalGrowth #SelfCare #WingsOfAPhoenix #DivorceHealing #HighAchievers #LifeAfterDivorce
Apr 24, 2026
11 min
Apr 13, 2026
Apr 13, 2026
9 min
📖 Get the book: Self-Love for Women: Transform Your Life in 30 Days. Available on Amazon → https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0DKK55WFC
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Welcome to the Self-Love Post-Divorce Mini-Series! In this special birthday month episode, your host Trena Briscoe Matthews kicks off a month-long celebration of self-love and post-divorce intentional design for women over 40.
This episode dives deep into Day 5 of her book, Self-Love for Women, with a powerful mantra: "From my nose to my toes, I am beautiful."
If you've ever looked in the mirror and only seen a to-do list of things to "fix" after your divorce—this episode is for you. We cover why the beauty industry profits from your self-doubt and walk through the transformative Mirror Affirmation Ritual together.
⏱️ TIMESTAMPS
0:00 – Welcome & Introduction
0:33 – Introducing the Self-Love Post-Divorce Mini-Series
0:55 – Day 5 of *Self-Love for Women*: "From My Nose to My Toes"
1:45 – The Beauty Industry & the 4,000–10,000 Daily Ads Bombarding Women 4:20 – Reading Day 5 from the Book
4:45 – The Mantra: Every Curve, Every Freckle, Every Wrinkle Tells Your Story 5:49 – The Mirror Affirmation Ritual (Do This Together!)
7:14 – Speak Love From Head to Toe
8:13 – Closing with Gratitude
8:44 – What 30 Days Could Do + Book Link
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🎙️ Subscribe for weekly episodes on healing, power, and peace after divorce. 📌 Follow Trena: https://tcbriscoe.my.canva.site/
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Apr 13, 2026
9 min






